WHY DO SOME BLACK CHRISTIAN WOMEN PRAY AND ASK GOD TO SEND A MAN?

WHY DO PREACHERS EVEN HONOR THESES STUPID FEELINGS. THERE IS NOTHING IN SCRIPTURE THAT SAYS GOD WILL DELIVER UNTO SINGLE WOMEN A MAN. PROVERBS SAYS " A MAN THAT FIND'S A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING ", WHATS THE RUSH?. ARE WE THIS DEPRESSED IN THE CHURCH, THAT PRAYER REQUEST HAS BECOME MORE RELATIONSHIP ORIENTED THEN, GROWING IN GRACE ORIENTED?. WHO TOLD THAT LIE, THAT GOD BLESSES WOMEN WITH A SPOUSE?. IT IS TRUE THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU THE DESIRE'S OF OUR HEARTS, NOW FOR THIS TO WORK YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THAT OUR DESIRE'S MUST BE IN LINE WITH HIS WILL!. HIS WILL IS NOT THAT ALL BE MARRIED, HIS WILL IS NOT THAT ALL BE RICH, HIS WILL IS NOT THAT WE ALL HAVE GREAT JOB'S. AS JESUS SAID " THE WILL OF THE FATHER IS THAT NONE SHALL PARISH ". IF YOU ARE SINGLE PAUL SAYS " ABIDE AS ME AND LIVE FOR GOD " IT SEEMS THAT MORE CHRISTIAN WOMEN ARE PRE-OCCUPIED WITH THE NOTION OF GOD I NEED A MAN, MORE THAN GOD I NEED YOU. I KNOW WOMEN WHO HAVE CONFESSED THAT GOD GAVE OR SENT THEM A MAN AND THAT SAME MAN WAS VERY ABUSIVE. I KNOW WOMEN WHO ARE HIGHLY ELEVATED IN THE CHURCH WORLD WHO SEEM TO CANT GET GOD TO SEND THE RIGHT MAN. WELL IF OUR PRAYERS WERE NOT SO SHALLOW, MAYBE WE WOULD BE ABLE TO SEE THE DEEPER THINGS THAT GOD HAS FOR US. LIKE PROVERBS SAY " A MAN THAT FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING ", IT IS INCUMBENT UPON THE WOMAN TO BE A GOOD THING UNTIL HER HUSBAND FIND HER. STOP TRYING TO SPEED UP THE PROCESS. IT IS NOT THAT SERIOUS. REMAIN UNTOUCHED BY ANY MAN UNIT'L YOUR HUSBAND FINDS YOU. DEVOTE YOUR SELF COMPLETELY TO THE WORK OF THE CHURCH THIS WILL SATISFY THOSE BURNING DESIRE'S OF WANTING A MAN. REMAIN PRE-OCCUPIED WITH FEEDING THE POOR, THIS WILL SATISFY THOSE BURNING DESIRE'S, REMAIN PRE-OCCUPIED WITH CLOTHING THE NAKED, THIS TOO WILL SATISFY THOSE BURNING DESIRE'S, REMAIN PRE-OCCUPIED WITH FEEDING THE HUNGRY, THIS WILL SATISFY THAT BURNING DESIRE. NOW WHEN ONE LOOK AT ALL THERE IS TO DO AND HOW OFTEN WE SAY TO GOD " YOUR WILL BE DONE " WHY ARE WE TRYING TO ADD THINGS TO A WILL THAT HAS ALREADY BEEN WRITTEN?. SOME BLACK CHRISTIAN WOMEN JUST MAY NOT BE WIFE MATERIAL, SOME MEN MAY NOT BE HUSBAND MATERIAL, BUT ONE THIS IS FOR SURE WE ALL ARE BRIDES AND GOD IS THE HUSBAND MAN OF US ALL. INSTEAD OF PRAYING FOR A MATE, ONE SHOULD PRAY THAT ONE DO AT LEAST ONE THING TO ADVANCE THE KINGDOM OF GOD WHILE ON THIS EARTH. LIKE I ALWAYS SAY " IM THE LAST ONE TO TALK, BUT WILL BE THE FIRST ONE TO TESTIFY ". PEACE